How well do you know me questions for couples

36 questions, grouped by how much they'll cost you.

Same format, different stakes. Answer these about each other separately and then compare — the gaps are more informative than the matches. Two things make this worth doing properly. First, write the answers down before you compare; saying "yeah, that's roughly what I would have said" after hearing the answer is not the same as knowing. Second, when you find a gap, resist explaining it away in the moment. A question you got wrong about someone you live with is not a failure, it's the most useful thing on the page.

Daily life

What's the first thing I check in the morning?
What's my actual bedtime, not my stated one?
What do I always run out of?
Which household task do I secretly hate most?
What's my comfort meal on a bad day?
How do I like to be woken up?
What do I do when I need to think?
What's my tell when I'm annoyed but saying I'm fine?

History

What was your first impression of me?
What was I most nervous about early on?
Which of my stories have you heard the most?
What's the hardest year I've had?
Who was I closest to before you?
What did I want my life to look like at this age?
What's something about my family you understood before I explained it?
What's a version of me you never met?

The two of you

What do I do that makes you feel most looked after?
When do you feel furthest from me?
What's the thing we keep not resolving?
How do we each behave after a fight?
What do I need more of that I haven't said?
Which of us protects the other more?
What would you change about how we handle money?
What are we better at than most people?
What do you think I'm scared of about us?
Do we spend our free time the way we'd choose to?

Ahead

What does a good year from now look like to you?
What am I putting off that you can see?
What do you want that you haven't asked for?
What would you regret not doing?
Where would we live if nothing was in the way?
What do you hope stays exactly the same?
What's one thing you'd want us to be better at?
What would make you feel more sure about us?
Is there anything you've been waiting for me to notice?
What's the conversation we should have had already?

Or let it score itself

Reading questions out loud only works if you're both being honest about the answers. The bestie quiz asks 16 of them about your actual behaviour, gives you each a four-letter role, and then tells you what the two roles make together.