The Lighthouse

Far away, but you always know where you are with them.

You're steady and capable, you don't need to talk every day, and you'd rather let a small thing go than make it a whole conversation. Friends don't hear from you constantly, but they know exactly who to call when something breaks.

Why you got LSPR

Lead over Ease: Who picks the place, who keeps the plan alive, who just goes along with it.
Subtle over Open: Whether care comes out as words, or as lifts to the airport and relentless teasing.
Patch over Clear: What you do when something's wrong — say it this week, or smooth it over and wait.
Roomy over Tight: How much contact you need before it feels like drifting, and how much before it feels like too much.

What works

Reliable in emergencies
Unbothered by distance
Even-tempered

What trips you up

Easy to drift from
Small things never get addressed

One letter away

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All 16 Bestie roles

Roles are a conversation starter, not a diagnosis. On what actually makes friendships hold up, see American Psychological Association — Friendship.